Your part in the solution
In our Christian culture today, we have become, for the most part, observers. We would rather pay professionals (staff pastors) and have them preach, teach, lead, counsel, and conduct all manner of ministry, while we sit in our chairs or pews and observe and receive teaching and then comfortably go home. Of particular concern is the approach many parents have toward their teenagers.
 
Here are words from one former youth pastor:
"Something that always bugged me as a youth pastor was when the parents of a group of kids would come to me and say, almost literally, 'would you just take my kid and shape them spiritually for 2 hours a week, I don't have time for that crap at home.' I was broken hearted by those kinds of people."
 
"Today's kids don't have the support systems that were in place 20 years ago. The loss of the two-parent nuclear family and the extended family as a given of childhood has had an enormous impact on the well-being and healthy development of kids. They are more alone, more dependent upon each other, and have a more difficult time making decisions and qnswering questions of identity and purpose.  That's one reason why the best youth ministry today is very relational, very family oriented."
 
— Wayne Rice (co-founder of Youth Specialties), quoted in Saving The Millennial Generation
by Dawson McAllister
 
 
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